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I know better than to give Elliott foods without checking the list of ingredients – with the many allergies that he has (and that I have), it’s becoming rather automatic. But it only takes one moment of carelessness to remind you of the importance of checking these lists every single time…

Jon had prepared tomato soup for just the two of us while Elliott ate a sandwich for lunch. After Jon left for work, I gave Elliott a few spoonfuls of the soup and didn’t think twice about it. I nursed Elliott for a short while and once we were done, I almost immediately noticed that his breathing sounded congested. His face became very red and I knew something was wrong. I found the discarded soup container and as I had feared in those brief seconds, the package said “contains milk”. I tried to give him a dose of Benadryl but with his dislike for that medicine and the mucous that was covering his mouth and throat, it was nearly impossible for me to give it to him successfully. I looked at our food action plan posted on the fridge and called 911.

Dialing 911 and knowing that I was most likely going to have to administer the Epipen Jr was so frightening. Elliott was gagging, trying hard to get a air in and out of his lungs. I thought he would vomit but instead, a large amount of thick mucous came pouring from his little mouth. The moment I told the 911 operator what had happened, that Elliott’s breathing was beginning to be compromised, she confirmed what I already knew – Elliott was experiencing Anaphylactic shock – I had to inject my little guy with his Epipen.

I laid him in between my legs on the floor, removed the Epipen from it’s plastic case and took out the blue safety-release cap. I was crying at this point, everything was happening so quickly and with such urgency. And while I’ve practiced with the dummy injector numerous times before and knew exactly how to use it,  I was concerned that I would somehow miss his little thigh muscle. With the operator in my ear, giving me the much needed support to save my baby, I injected the epinephrine into Elliott with one quick and strong motion. I held it there for at least 20 seconds while he cried to be released…

We were brought to the hospital by ambulance and during the next 10 minutes after giving him the shot, Elliott’s color returned and his breathing improved dramatically. Jon met us in the ER just seconds after we arrived. Once they observed him for the 4 hours, we were able to be discharged with orders to continue giving him daily doses of steroids and Benadryl during the next 3 days.

Elliott is sleeping soundly right now. Everyone tells me I did exactly what needed to be done. And though it kills me to know I could have prevented this entire situation, I feel comfort in knowing that I reacted with clarity and without hesitation as soon as it all began.

Even if it’s the 10th, 100th or 1000th time I’ve read the same ingredient list of any product, I will be reminded of this situation and will read it for the 1001st time…

Elliott will be wearing these AllerMates awareness bracelets as soon as they will fit onto his little wrists (around 2 years of age).

AllerMates Bracelets Bring Attention To Your Child's Allergies

 

“If you’re serious about photography, Carolyn, we need to move to New York City”…

And with that, we packed our belongings and drove across the country from San Francisco to Brooklyn back in 2007.

Now, almost 5 years later, I am so excited and proud to announce the launch of my new website carolynclementphotography.com. Over the past several years, I have been given incredible opportunities: From those who hired me without experience; who gave me internships when the competition was so stiff; to my peers who allowed me to fetch coffee and sweep floors for them for the chance to discover new lighting techniques. I thank you all on a professional and personal level for helping me achieve this milestone.

It hasn’t always been easy; I’ve worked my butt off to get to this point. But what I’ve discovered is that the time and effort you put into something eventually rewards you, often when you least expect it.

And so, as excited (and anxious) as I am today to be making my work public, I cannot wait to see where I’ll be in another 5 years…

Sincerely,

Carolyn Clement

Though I haven’t posted a single blog entry during the past 2 months, please do not assume that I haven’t been ridiculously busy. I am just days away from launching my brand new website and couldn’t be more excited to share it with you!

In addition to creating my portfolio and website, I am getting ready to be a lead photographer at this year’s first ever Kids Food Festival, being held at Bryant Park on January 21 & 22. The official website describes this event as follows:

“This free event helps in the fight against childhood obesity. Learn about the importance of achieving balance in food choices, through fun activities and sampling family-friendly foods. Get your forks ready for a weekend full of flavorful fun! Appetites of all sizes will be satisfied!”

With plenty of activities for children of all ages, including hands-on cooking classes with celebrity chefs, musical performances, a scavenger hunt and more samples of yummy (healthy) treats than you can shake a stick at, this weekend promises to be an excellent way to learn about balanced nutrition while enjoying the fresh air. Please take the time to visit the festival’s website at KidsFoodFestival.com for more information!

It was a very windy day down at the Weehawken Waterfront in New Jersey but that didn’t stop little Ava from having a good time!

I am so pleased with the results of our session. Enjoy!

While we were staying at the camp on Skaneateles Lake in Upstate New York last weekend, we were without a bath tub. Then it dawned on me that Elliott has never taken a bath in a sink! A must for all babies! Fortunately for Elliott, this sink is huge. Unfortunately, it’s also made of solid stone. Can you spot the spot?

It is a rare occasion that we are able to get all 4 generations of Jon’s family together. Though I know of families with greater distances that separate them, once you involve any Great-Grandparent, the chances that you will find yourselves all sitting around the kitchen table for the evening become less and less likely. Unless you make it happen.

And we made it happen.

I’m currently working on a fusion video (combining stills/video/audio) and cannot wait to present it to all of Jon’s (and my) family.

After a trip to the Pediatrician’s today for a well-baby check-up, Elliott’s Dr recommended we add a few protein-filled snacks to his diet. Her first suggestions were yogurt and cheese. And though Elliott had tested positive to a dairy allergy a few months ago, I continue to include dairy in my diet and it hasn’t had any impact on his health (he’s still nursing). I also understand that cheese and yogurt are very different from cow’s milk when it comes to dairy allergies and intolerances.

We went home and gave him one spoonful of Fage…

*I’ve been meaning to write about my love for Fage Greek Yogurt. If I could eat only one thing for the rest of my life, this yogurt would be it. I have it every morning with berries, honey and cereal, I use it on burritos and baked potatoes. With no fat, no cholesterol and tons of protein, this velvety smooth greek yogurt is wonderful. Makes me feel sorry for sour cream…*

I gave him one spoonful of yogurt mixed with fruit. He really liked it. 10 mins later, we noticed red hives around his mouth, but he often reacts to random things and we had just been at the grocery store so I hoped it was not related to the yogurt. 3 mins later, we hear a gagging sound and Elliott empties his entire belly contents onto our hardwood floor. It was violent. Jon and I took care of the situation, cleaned the little tyke up. 3 mins later, it seems Elliott’s belly wasn’t entirely empty…

So it’s confirmed, Elliott won’t be having yogurt and cheese. Now I must find other snacks (he likes tofu, so I guess that’s good) to fill the protein gap. Any suggestions?

…I married the man of my dreams. I know it seems like a cliche (you know, the whole “Hawaiian Wedding” thing) but Jon and I were living in San Francisco and planning a wedding for hundreds on the East Coast from the West Coast would have been a logistical nightmare. So we made a decision: Let’s go to Hawaii and our family and friends that can make it will not only be able to share in our wedding day but will also enjoy a vacation of their own. We ended up with a party of 15 from both Canada and the US and spent almost a full week together.

We would do it the same way in an instant. What we love most about our time in Oahu are all the shared experiences we have with some of our favorite people. My bestfriend met Jon’s bestfriend, my sister met Jon’s sister, etc… So by the time I walked down the aisle, I felt the love and bond that had formed over the previous several days as we all discovered the dolphins, Dole Pineapple Plantation and Mai Tais together!

And though I wouldn’t change a thing, our wedding day had it’s fair share of unpredictable moments and challenges (in fact, Jon and I think our story can easily rival the recent Bridesmaids movie…!). But what we never once lost sight of was that we were committing to take on those very same issues together as a united team for the rest of our lives.

Here’s to you, my love, Mahalo!!!!

What a better way to celebrate the beginning of Fall than with a visit to a local family-owned farm? This was an event organized by my Meetup group, NJMM (North Jersey Moms Meetup). And while the weather hasn’t been the best lately, certainly not for farms – mud! – the rain held off long enough for me, Jon and Elliott to enjoy Abma’s Farm located 30mins from our home in Weehawken, NJ.

Petting Zoo

 

Baaaa!

Abma’s Farm has a petting zoo, hayrides, a bakery & market and is a fun place to spend a few hours. Elliott enjoyed seeing all the sheep, goats and ponies and looks forward to one day being able to ride one of those ponies!

Great First Hayride

Towards the end of our visit, while on our hayride, we met a fellow NJMM mom who has a 6 month old son, Ishan…I love how intense babies are when they discover another of their kind…

Hello Friend!

We had a very nice time and will definitely be back again, soon. Thanks for a great day, Abma’s Farm!

Home Sweet Home!!!

Don’t get me wrong, I love being a mom and wouldn’t trade it for the world. But man, traveling with an 8 month old is tough…and he’s a great baby! Gone are the days of me and Jon going out to the beach, then a restaurant, then a club while on vacation. I swear, we must’ve planned almost every minute of every day, just to make sure we weren’t caught off-guard. From food, to water, to teething toys, swimsuit, hat, baby spf, life jacket, stroller, high chair, 2 changes of clothes, diapers, swim diapers…dear lord! I was about to have a meltdown before I even left the hotel room!

And Miami is HUMID!!! So darn humid. We went for a few runs during our trip and even when planned early in the day, I couldn’t finish a 5k. The heat, which has been pretty bad in the Northeast this summer but nothing like this, was enough to sap all my energy. Safe to say we won’t be planning a move to Florida any time soon…

So we’re home, and I’m happy. Someone remind me of the mayhem we just experienced before I ask Jon to go on another long-distance business trip with him…

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