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Or is it Manayunk? Or Roxborough? Though I’m still unsure what to call this place, I do know that I like it here. I guess I hadn’t realized that I would be saying hello to neighbors while taking strolls with Elliott so soon after moving (3 weeks yesterday). I found it most exciting when a lady asked “Is that Elliott?” and discovered it was the same lady who cares for him at the YMCA when Jon and I workout. Turns out, she lives just a few blocks from us…apparently, so do most people.

Pretzel Park in Manayunk

In these 3 short weeks since our big move, I have already met a lot of wonderful moms and their children. Elliott will certainly have more friends here than he did in Weehawken. Our schedule is also filling up: story times at the library, tot gym at the church, swimming lessons at the Y and afternoons spent between 2 great parks (Pretzel Park and Gorgas Park).

The best part about this move is that I feel joy and a sense of calm. It’s supposed to be in the 70s several days this week…Spring is around the corner…And I couldn’t be happier.

I know better than to give Elliott foods without checking the list of ingredients – with the many allergies that he has (and that I have), it’s becoming rather automatic. But it only takes one moment of carelessness to remind you of the importance of checking these lists every single time…

Jon had prepared tomato soup for just the two of us while Elliott ate a sandwich for lunch. After Jon left for work, I gave Elliott a few spoonfuls of the soup and didn’t think twice about it. I nursed Elliott for a short while and once we were done, I almost immediately noticed that his breathing sounded congested. His face became very red and I knew something was wrong. I found the discarded soup container and as I had feared in those brief seconds, the package said “contains milk”. I tried to give him a dose of Benadryl but with his dislike for that medicine and the mucous that was covering his mouth and throat, it was nearly impossible for me to give it to him successfully. I looked at our food action plan posted on the fridge and called 911.

Dialing 911 and knowing that I was most likely going to have to administer the Epipen Jr was so frightening. Elliott was gagging, trying hard to get a air in and out of his lungs. I thought he would vomit but instead, a large amount of thick mucous came pouring from his little mouth. The moment I told the 911 operator what had happened, that Elliott’s breathing was beginning to be compromised, she confirmed what I already knew – Elliott was experiencing Anaphylactic shock – I had to inject my little guy with his Epipen.

I laid him in between my legs on the floor, removed the Epipen from it’s plastic case and took out the blue safety-release cap. I was crying at this point, everything was happening so quickly and with such urgency. And while I’ve practiced with the dummy injector numerous times before and knew exactly how to use it,  I was concerned that I would somehow miss his little thigh muscle. With the operator in my ear, giving me the much needed support to save my baby, I injected the epinephrine into Elliott with one quick and strong motion. I held it there for at least 20 seconds while he cried to be released…

We were brought to the hospital by ambulance and during the next 10 minutes after giving him the shot, Elliott’s color returned and his breathing improved dramatically. Jon met us in the ER just seconds after we arrived. Once they observed him for the 4 hours, we were able to be discharged with orders to continue giving him daily doses of steroids and Benadryl during the next 3 days.

Elliott is sleeping soundly right now. Everyone tells me I did exactly what needed to be done. And though it kills me to know I could have prevented this entire situation, I feel comfort in knowing that I reacted with clarity and without hesitation as soon as it all began.

Even if it’s the 10th, 100th or 1000th time I’ve read the same ingredient list of any product, I will be reminded of this situation and will read it for the 1001st time…

Elliott will be wearing these AllerMates awareness bracelets as soon as they will fit onto his little wrists (around 2 years of age).

AllerMates Bracelets Bring Attention To Your Child's Allergies

 

“If you’re serious about photography, Carolyn, we need to move to New York City”…

And with that, we packed our belongings and drove across the country from San Francisco to Brooklyn back in 2007.

Now, almost 5 years later, I am so excited and proud to announce the launch of my new website carolynclementphotography.com. Over the past several years, I have been given incredible opportunities: From those who hired me without experience; who gave me internships when the competition was so stiff; to my peers who allowed me to fetch coffee and sweep floors for them for the chance to discover new lighting techniques. I thank you all on a professional and personal level for helping me achieve this milestone.

It hasn’t always been easy; I’ve worked my butt off to get to this point. But what I’ve discovered is that the time and effort you put into something eventually rewards you, often when you least expect it.

And so, as excited (and anxious) as I am today to be making my work public, I cannot wait to see where I’ll be in another 5 years…

Sincerely,

Carolyn Clement

Though I haven’t posted a single blog entry during the past 2 months, please do not assume that I haven’t been ridiculously busy. I am just days away from launching my brand new website and couldn’t be more excited to share it with you!

In addition to creating my portfolio and website, I am getting ready to be a lead photographer at this year’s first ever Kids Food Festival, being held at Bryant Park on January 21 & 22. The official website describes this event as follows:

“This free event helps in the fight against childhood obesity. Learn about the importance of achieving balance in food choices, through fun activities and sampling family-friendly foods. Get your forks ready for a weekend full of flavorful fun! Appetites of all sizes will be satisfied!”

With plenty of activities for children of all ages, including hands-on cooking classes with celebrity chefs, musical performances, a scavenger hunt and more samples of yummy (healthy) treats than you can shake a stick at, this weekend promises to be an excellent way to learn about balanced nutrition while enjoying the fresh air. Please take the time to visit the festival’s website at KidsFoodFestival.com for more information!

It was a very windy day down at the Weehawken Waterfront in New Jersey but that didn’t stop little Ava from having a good time!

I am so pleased with the results of our session. Enjoy!

While we were staying at the camp on Skaneateles Lake in Upstate New York last weekend, we were without a bath tub. Then it dawned on me that Elliott has never taken a bath in a sink! A must for all babies! Fortunately for Elliott, this sink is huge. Unfortunately, it’s also made of solid stone. Can you spot the spot?

It is a rare occasion that we are able to get all 4 generations of Jon’s family together. Though I know of families with greater distances that separate them, once you involve any Great-Grandparent, the chances that you will find yourselves all sitting around the kitchen table for the evening become less and less likely. Unless you make it happen.

And we made it happen.

I’m currently working on a fusion video (combining stills/video/audio) and cannot wait to present it to all of Jon’s (and my) family.

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